40 Day Love Ritual with Energy Muse

I picked up a copy of Crystal Muse recently, and it's a great tool for anyone new to the crystal game, or even if you're just looking for some easy ways to really use these tools.

This book is a great overall guide for just about anything you could want to work on in life. I came across this 40 Day Love Ritual designed to bring more love into your life, and I thought it was perfectly fitting for this time of year.  I won't give you all of the details, because you should really grab a copy of the book to get all of the info on these rituals, but I will go over the points and how you can apply them.​

​There are a bunch of steps you can take to clear out your living space, wardrobe, etc. if you really want to dive deep with this. Decluttering and cleansing are a big part of this, and there are also a few recipes for love baths with essential oils to get you in the mood. The main points of the ritual are essential a 5-step process that can easily be done every day.

While this ritual is designed to attract the gender you're hoping for into your life, it really boils down to learning to have a little more love for yourself. You can think it's kooky, but there's something to affirmations, repitition, and positive reinforcement. Energy is really no joke either!

So how can you use some rocks and candles to meet your perfect match? It can be done in just a few easy steps.

The important part of this process is follow-thru (geez, like everything, right). You've got to do it every day, really every day with no cheats, and you shouldn't go more than 24 hours between each session. Again, roll eyes if you wish, but my thinking is don't bash it till you've tried it, and what's really so wrong with spending a few minutes on yourself everyday anyway. Really. 

This ritual starts on the first day of the New Moon which should be tomorrow. If you miss it, no worries, there's another one next month!

So here we go, 5 easy steps for attracting more love...

1. Start by cleansing your environment with sage, which you can do as much as needed during the next 39 days.
2. Sit at your love altar or quiet space (add some rose quartz if you've got it!)
3. Light candles or incense to encourage uplifting vibes.
4. Use a strand of 108 mala beads to chat aloud, one chant for each bead, the appropriate mantra for the gender you wish to attract.
   (to attract a man) sat patim dehi parameshwara
   (to attract a woman) om shrim shriyei namaha
5. When you've finished chanting, place the beads back on your altar. Hold your green and pink crystals and close your eyes. With intention, say aloud "I am love, I am lovable, I am worthy". You can add any other positive messages you'd like to tell yourself!

If you'd like to pick up a copy of Crystal Muse, there's a link right above to purchase. Check it out for so many more easy rituals you can do to use crystals in your everyday life, for real things.

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